Welcome to my sancuary

Beauty matters. Pleasure matters. Intimacy matters. There is no higher desire. I can help you find it, share it, and experience it. Within your marriage, relationships, or your quest for it.

revealing ourselves

and our deepest desires

is one of the sexiest things

we could ever do


and without shame

If you have shame, prepare to shed it now.

You were told to work and achieve. You did. And success came. But what comes of it?

Extraordinary people achieve extraordinary things and are then told by the world to live ordinary lives.

We have little guidance on how to come to terms with our own desires, wants, and needs. There are many boxes that we can check and labels we can use BUT what does that tell us about how to build the relationships and marriages that we crave?

You may hear from those around you that-

What you have is enough.

You don’t need more.

BUT you didn’t get to where you are with that attitude. Why strive for the heights of success without continuing to dive into the desires that propel you forward?

Our passions help us to pursue our purpose. And achievement without pleasure can feel like a life half lived.

Without this wholeness, we are in a desert. We are left thirsty, wandering, and wondering- “What if… and “what more…”

Your intuition tells you there is more to explore within your dating life, with your relationships, or within your marriage.

And you are right!

Intimate desires, fantasies, and pleasures are like the stars to our being. You CAN reach within yourself pull them out and see them shine.

You CAN use those desires to build the relationship of your dreams. You can share your desires lovingly with your partner and introduce or re-introduce passion into your life.

I can help you find it, share it, grow it, and experience it. Within your marriage, relationships, or your quest for it.

I’m a sex and intimacy advisor.

I help exceptional people attain their ultimate desires through transformative 1:1 personalized guidance and development.

find your Freedom

Work Ethic & Play Ethic

According to Robert Greene, author of The Art of Seduction, our desire for pleasure is our greatest weakness.

When you don’t know your own path to pleasure you are more vulnerable to a manipulative form of seduction.

So how to you pave your OWN path to pleasure?

Our focus usually lingers on achieving and the rational. Its importance is instilled in us time and time again and for good reason.

And often the non-rational is seen as unnecessary, and weak.


It simply doesn’t pay the bills. It is difficult to measure pleasure and make it a tangible value. It doesn’t fit into a certificate to place on the wall.

But even as executives and entrepreneurs we aren’t simply rational beings.

There is an abundance of creativity, desire, and passion with us all, but how do we make use of it?

In the words in one of my own mentors, “we have a work ethic, but not a pleasure ethic.”

I encourage you to think about your greatest moment of pleasure and reflect on what was it about that moment that brought you joy, fulfilment, and satisfaction.

Then repeat those things. There is likely a theme there waiting to be discovered.

I am here to empower you to take the choice to bring more pleasure to your life. With less shame and more freedom.


finding Desire

my play ethic

Below are some of the tools I use to help my clients transform their dating lives, marriages, and their relationship with their own sex life.

  • The Anatomy of orgasms
  • De-Compartmentalizing + Reclaiming Erotic Self-Expression
  • Full-Body Pleasure Mapping
  • Escalating Sex with Consent
  • Finding Your Core Desire
  • Trigger Mapping and De-escalation in Relationships
  • Talking About Desires/Feeling Rejected Around Desire
  • Relaxing Into Receiving Desire + Compliments from your partner

your game

the perfect way to savour pleasure

𝑷𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝒉𝒊𝒃𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒇𝒂𝒗𝒐𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚.

If the art of sensuality has vanished from life it is because we have lived as though it does not matter.

But eventually-

⫸We become restless (sometimes we call it a type of life crisis)

⫸Maybe we see ourselves within a character in a book or movie that we relate too well with

⫸Or take a trip or meet someone that gives us a new perspective on our own lives

And then comes the realization…

𝐈’𝐦 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐭.

There are still so many decades to go.

How is it that you want to live them?

I see life’s pleasures as a game. The rules can be made by us and so can the prize. 

There is more we want out of our lives and relationships than we have the ability to communicate, but we can always learn, get better, and have more love, passion, intrigue, and pleasure.

become a client

Want to build your own sanctuary? I can help.

Are you Ready for intimacy?