here...Beauty matters. Pleasure matters. Intimacy matters. There is no higher desire. Through my own stories I hope I can help you find it, share it, and experience it. Within your marriage, relationships, or on your quest for all things eros.
If you have shame, prepare to shed it now.
You were told to work and achieve. To be a good girl or boy. To follow a certain kind of path. You did. But did you find joy there? Perhaps you require a new story, new angles, plot lines, and story arc.
We have little guidance on how to come to terms with our own desires, wants, and needs. There are many boxes that we can check and labels we can use BUT what does that tell us about oursleves as individuals how to craft the relationships and experiences that we crave?
You may hear from those around you that-
What you have is enough.
You don’t need more.
But I believe that our passions help us to pursue our purpose while also giving us purpose. And a life of striving without pleasure can feel like a life half lived.
Without this wholeness, we are in a desert. We are left thirsty, wandering, and wondering- “What if… and “what more…”
Your intuition tells you there is more to explore within your dating life, with your relationships, within your marriage, or within yourself.
And you are right!
Intimate desires, fantasies, and pleasures can reveal themselves to us like shadows turning to light. You CAN reach within yourself pull them out and see them illuminate what was once obscured.
You CAN use those desires to create a better story, more aligned and highly attuned to the life and pleasure that you desire.
Within my writing, my hope is that I can help you find it, share it, grow it, and experience it. Within your marriage, relationships, or on your personal quest for it.
-Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.-
According to Robert Greene, author of The Art of Seduction, our desire for pleasure is our greatest weakness.
When you don’t know your own path to pleasure you are more vulnerable to a manipulative form of seduction.
So how to you pave your OWN path to pleasure?
Our focus usually lingers on achieving and the rational. Its importance is instilled in us time and time again and for good reason.
And often the non-rational is seen as unnecessary, and weak.
It simply doesn’t pay the bills. It is difficult to measure pleasure and make it a tangible value. It doesn’t fit into a certificate to place on the wall.
But even as employees, parents, entrepreneurs, or however we may identify ourselves, we aren’t simply rational beings.
There is an abundance of creativity, desire, and passion with us all, but how do we make use of it?
In the words in one of my own mentors, “we have a work ethic, but not a pleasure ethic.”
In life, even if we have many choices and opportunities in front of us, we obviously do not have the time to live every time of life or experience every kind of pleasure that could bring about a feeling of bliss. Through my erotica you can explore more freely and without judgement or the threat of shame or regret.
Through my writings I encourage you to think about your greatest moment of pleasure and reflect on what was it about that moment that brought you joy, fulfilment, and satisfaction.
Then repeat those things. There is likely a theme there waiting to be discovered. Maybe even a theme in my writing that stands out to you as something to be explored.
Through my stories am here to empower you to take the choice to bring more pleasure to your life. With less shame and more freedom.
Below are some of the tools I use to help my clients transform their dating lives, marriages, and their relationship with their own sex life.
𝑷𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝒉𝒊𝒃𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒇𝒂𝒗𝒐𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚.
If the art of sensuality has vanished from life it is because we have lived as though it does not matter.
⫸We become restless (sometimes we call it a type of life crisis)
⫸Maybe we see ourselves within a character in a book or movie that we relate too well with
⫸Or take a trip or meet someone that gives us a new perspective on our own lives
And then comes the realization…
𝐈’𝐦 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐭.
There are still so many decades to go.
How is it that you want to live them?
I see life’s pleasures as a game. The rules can be made by us and so can the prize.
There is more we want out of our lives and relationships than we have the ability to communicate, but we can always learn, get better, and have more love, passion, intrigue, and pleasure.